Ex-lawyer turned relationship coach

A Difficult Life Lesson

You can’t make people care, despite what the deluge of books and courses on this subject say.

If someone doesn’t like you, that’s it. They like what they like and sometimes you’re not included. You can’t change that.

And it doesn’t matter. Because someone who doesn’t care about you isn’t worth your time and attention, regardless of how attractive and cool they might be. 

So don’t be upset, be thankful. Now you know you’re not a fit for each other. Time to move on and give someone else your love and generosity.

You deserve someone who’s all in. Any less ought to be a dealbreaker.

After all, being attracted to someone is far less important than being attracted to the life you want for yourself.

By Jeroen Elsing
Ex-lawyer turned relationship coach