Ex-lawyer turned relationship coach

Systems For Success Aren’t That Important

Making goals SMART, awakening the giant within, challenging the status quo, creating a purple cow, using the law of attraction, pursuing WOW!, and thinking win-win. All are hugely popular formulas for success that could never be published in any scientific journal.

Maybe that’s because success depends on an endless amount of variables that are impossible to measure. Maybe it’s because much of self-development is hokum. Maybe it’s a bit of both.

Luckily for you, it doesn’t matter.

If a system leads you to positive action, that’s all that matters.

Don’t worry too much about the systems and rules that guide your thinking, just make sure it moves you in the direction you want to go.

By Jeroen Elsing
Ex-lawyer turned relationship coach