If there’s one thing that gets people to develop feelings for the wrong person, it’s this: common courtesy.
“It was fun.”
“I had good time.”
“So good to see you!”
Saying these things without romantic intentions doesn’t make you a phony or a liar. That’d be silly. People can enjoy another person’s company without wanting to date them.
Enjoyment doesn’t necessarily mean attraction.
And for some of us, that might be a little hard to grasp.
So how do you know whether or not someone is actually into you ?
Electricity. Sparks. Fireworks. Chemistry.
Different words that all describe the same thing: a strong appetite for someone. That’s why someone who’s in love might tell their sweetheart, “I love you so much, I could eat you.”
Their love feels so large and overwhelming that they almost want to gobble the other person up.
And we usually take that as a compliment. Unless we’re talking to The Blob.
Is the person you just met giving you signs that they can’t get enough of you? Touching you a lot, getting inside your personal space, saying you look good, confiding in you, and giving you bedroom eyes?
Then you know.