Ex-lawyer turned relationship coach

Who Told You It Was Supposed To Be Easy?

“A good relationship should be easy and low effort.” 


What part of life is easy? Show it to me. Perhaps I’m the exception, but I find living a huge pain in the ass. 

And not always the fun kind.

Does that mean we should all be diving into active volcanoes or taunting hungry cannibals? 

Of course not.

Most things worth having take effort to earn and maintain.

Whether it’s a meaningful relationship, a rewarding career, a fit and healthy body, or a ‘67 Volkswagen Beetle.

Stop romanticising ease. You can do hard things just fine. You’re stronger and more equipped than you think.

By Jeroen Elsing
Ex-lawyer turned relationship coach